Tomorrow is a true day off. I'm usually off on Thursday but both the kids have school. However, tomorrow is Halloween and the schools have costume parades and Halloween parties. It sounds kind of fun, but we're keeping the kids home from school.
Scott and I decided that our family will not participate in Halloween. It's quite a controversial decision here, as it is a huge American event. I get that the majority of kids dress up as cartoon characters, and enjoy the candy and costume. I'm sure our kids won't be scared by the cute decorations in school, especially as Emma assures me "it's just pretend Mom!"
Our decision follows a pattern of giving careful thought to how we live our life, why we do anything, and what it shows our children. Candy and costumes are a regular occurrence in our house, so really not a compelling argument for us to ignore the reasons not to particpate.
So, the kids will stay home, rather than go to school and not be a part of the parades. They won't lose out though!! I'm taking them out for breakfast, and then in the evening we're heading to the indoor playground with their cousins for a family night of fun, and arcade games!
I know Emma would like to be a part of it, and I was tempted to concede, but then I realized we have to take a stand on our beliefs, even if it's not the popular choice. And when all the kids are going out to parties and who knows where, we will take an unpopular stand there too! We want to raise children who know that following the crowd is not always right, or wise.
Pastor Bob recently preached a message and something he said stuck with me. The Bible is clear on many issues of sin, but there are plenty of issues that were not specifically addressed 2000 years ago. In these areas, where you feel convicted, when something feels wrong, that is the Holy Spirit speaking to you and you have to listen.
We may not join those who love Halloween. It doesn't mean we don't love them!